self-love

Assalamualaikum w.b.t 

Being a girl with this age taught me plenty of things.

It is self-love.

First, have faith in our own self. To have that final say even  when everyone is against us. To love ourselves and to understand that only you know your own worth. To ignore negative remarks and bad vibes. If people talk bad about you, remind yourself that for every gossip or nowadays they called it ‘membawang’,. We will be rewarded in the afterlife.

Only you are responsible with your life. There might be people who seem nice outer but really horrible inside, and there is nothing you can do about it.. I have been experienced it a lot.

But, always hold with this:

Always be kind to all people, but if you are not being treated kindly, just WALK AWAY. Don’t try to change someone who not worth it. Don’t let anyone bring you down so low as to hate them. Release them from the hold they have on you and continue with peace in your heart.

Life is short and it is not worth wasting our time trying to figure people out or proving anything to them. The only person you have to prove all things is.. YOURSELF.

Be strong and walk away. Strive all that you wanna be.

Holding on to bitterness and anger will only hinder your happiness. Your life is much too precious to spend another hour and second worrying about someone who doesn’t bring us happiness and peace.

As we know, nothing last forever. Not sadness and not even happiness. Live everyday like you are going to die tomorrow. Death is reminder to our main objective as a khalifah in life which is jannatul firdaus.Allah knows what’s in our heart. Even if you cant out into words how you are feel or what you want, just sit on your prayer mat and just cry. Ask  Allah to ease your heart and grant you what’s the best for you. Allah always with us and keep smiling because we are not alone.

xoxo,

oceanstongirl